In His Own Words
About Him
I am a calm, intelligent, reserved, well read, well travelled person. Always curious .....
I have achieved success in most things I put my hand to.... and I am comfortable in any company......
My wife of many years recently passed away ... being alone is a new experience for me.... not something I would like to do forever.
I would like to meet someone whom I can communicate with, be friends with, go out with... and .... who knows ... ??
About His Ideal Match
I suppose you would have very similar personality traits if we are going to get along?
What can I say ... if you prefer the quiet life, travelling, are not super active (e.g. run marathons every second day) ... we may just have something in common.
I have never been in a gym in my life. I do however admire people who gym often.... Who knows ... maybe you can convert me???... :)
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Helderberg, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
75 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Agnostic | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
61 - 73 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 168cm (5' 6.1") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
None |
Body Hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Intelligent; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; News; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Business news; Card games; Reading; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Bowls; Camping; Canoeing; Cricket; Fishing; Motorsport; Rugby; Snorkeling; Walking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Greek; Italian; Japanese; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Watching TV or a movie |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Nervous; Embarrassed |
Honesty: |
Extremely |

