In Her Own Words
About Her
Friends describe me as steady and thoughtful. I value growth, good conversation, coffee, nature, laughter, exploring, travel and meaningful connection.
About Her Ideal Match
Looking for a grounded, kind partner. I value steady effort, meaningful connection and shared simple moments. Deal breaker: inconsistency, dishonest.
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Northern Suburbs, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
164cm (5' 4.6") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Coloured | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
53 - 63 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan; Kosher | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any; Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Jazz; Latin; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; World |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Movie Channels; Music Channels |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Drama |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Investing; Painting; Pottery; Sculpting; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Gardening |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |


