In His Own Words
About Him
People often describe me as humble, confident, talented, and authentic and I try to live up to that every day.
I value respect in the way someone carries themselves. I’m not a fan of foul language, smoking, heavy drinking, or any kind of drug use. I’m drawn to people who are open to growth especially in character. I believe none of us should ever be so settled that we stop improving.
I’m not driven purely by money I’m more motivated by freedom, purpose, and building a meaningful life. I enjoy going to church, singing, supporting my son in his sport, and spending quality time with family and close friends, having real, uplifting conversations.
My faith is central to who I am. I believe in God and in eternity, and I believe who we become is shaped by whether we truly have a relationship with Him. That relationship ultimately determines the direction of our lives both now and forever.
About His Ideal Match
I’m attracted to a modest woman someone who carries herself with dignity and doesn’t feel the need to expose her body for attention. I value a woman who isn’t into the clubbing lifestyle and who keeps healthy boundaries, especially when it comes to male friendships.
I believe a man should lead, protect, and provide, and I’m looking for a woman who appreciates that dynamic and desires to be a supportive partner and a great wife. That said, I respect ambition. I don’t mind if she is driven or even earns more than me as long as success doesn’t turn into arrogance or a need to dominate.
A little natural jealousy or protectiveness is human, but I’m not interested in aggression or controlling behavior.
Faith is very important to me. I would love a woman who wants to grow spiritually, attend church together, and build something centered on God.
Deal breakers for me would be someone who is aggressive, loud in a negative way, smokes, drinks heavily, or has no interest in faith or personal growth.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Southern Suburbs, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
43 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
177cm (5' 9.7") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Coloured | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
33 - 48 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Hope; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Colour: |
White |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Non-fiction; Religious; Self-help |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Reality shows; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Acting; Business news; Cooking; Healthy living; Investing; Making Music; Meditation; Shopping; Singing; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Body building; Boxing; Cricket; Darts; Golf; Pool; Rowing; Soccer; Tennis; Volleyball |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Intelligence |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
More than once a week |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |