In His Own Words
About Him
Widower, scientist, educator, clean energy nerd, entrepreneur, and technology futurist looking for non-exclusive friendship, companionship, and intimacy.
My wife of 37 years died last year after a chronic illness. We had time to talk - while honoring our life together, she wanted me to heal, live well, and be happy - including having a healthy social life.
I have many close and supportive friends, most of whom live elsewhere. While I heal inside from loss, I am interested in meeting new people with whom to spend time and have fun.
I am well (over) educated with a wide range of interests. A good conversationalist, I follow global news and listen to podcasts every day. These focus on tech, news, foreign policy, economics, and politics. I am a left leaning moderate. (Maga move on; it won't work.)
I am gainfully employed, stable, and well-balanced. My two poodle dogs seem to be doing OK. I am INTJ/ENTJ. I am pretty vanilla, but open to experimenting. I am ENM/poly.
If it's your turn-on, I am super tall. I could lose a few pounds but did once play basketball. At home, I am often a nudist, but not really an exhibitionist. Textile-free is just healthy. (Unless cooking)
I sail, travel, go to concerts, and listen to anything but modern country. I like plays and galleries. I've been a technology entrepreneur and government program manager.
Most importantly, I work every day to heal from the loss of my wife as I begin exploring the third act of my life.
About His Ideal Match
Interested in open minded, independent, and interesting women who are confident and aware of both themselves and the world around them. Someone to talk to, be social with, and spend time with, as well as getting naked together.
Ideal person is well read, educated and enjoys arts and music. Must believe in science and data, as well as comfortable with new technology. Should be a fan of the Oxford comma. No maga.
Looking for friendship, companionship, and intimacy. Not looking for ONS and could be longer term, but also not looking for exclusivity nor monogamy. Must be honest, ethical, open and trustable in communications. ENM/poly. Must be tested, vaxxed, drug/disease free.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Greenville, South Carolina, United States | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
63 | |
Star Sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
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Body Type: |
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Looks: |
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Hair Colour: |
Grey | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
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Religion: |
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Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
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Daily Diet: |
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Smoking: |
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Drinking: |
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Education: |
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Occupation: |
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Income: |
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About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Greenville (South Carolina, United States) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outrageous; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Honesty |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Reading: |
I love it |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Take Drugs: |
Not any more |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm seeing several people |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Skinny dipping |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Honesty: |
Extremely |





