In His Own Words
About Him
I am an easy going and kind hearted. I love animals and children. I have a very quirky sense of humour and look for the funny side of just about everything. I am equally in my element cuddling in front of the TV, cooking together (with music please), having a spirited and/or deep discussion or exploring each others fantasy worlds in bed. Rational and emotional. Fun loving and composed. A social introvert (think introverted but express extroverted). Think quickly but judge slowly. Easy to get along with but complex. I am a hopeless romantic, an abstract (big picture) and intuitive thinker, have an extremely rich inner world and have an interest in EVERYTHING (except sport and politics). I am adaptable and negotiable, but I am NO kind of doormat. I am a communicator and love to talk. For a man my listening skills are off the charts and I am proud to say they are almost acceptable. You won't get a better deal than that!
About His Ideal Match
Without polarity there is no attraction. With polarity there is conflict. Lets try and meet each other in the middle. I am not right. You are not right. Lets try and ensure that WE are right. Additionally I want someone fun and serious who knows when which attitude is appropriate. Its about emotional intelligence and adaptability stemming from self awareness. Someone who is rational but wants to make space for each others emotional worlds.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
48 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Agnostic | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Teacher / Professor | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Eastern Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
It has its moods; Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Hairy |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Folk; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Punk; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Computer & video games; Cooking; Meditation; Reading; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Bodyboarding; Pool; Scuba diving; Sky diving; Swimming; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I always cook at home |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |