In His Own Words
About Him
young in spirit and strong in body and mind.
I’m a business owner, a creative thinker, and someone who believes that how you live matters. I train five days a week, lead a healthy lifestyle, and take care of myself — not out of vanity, but because I value discipline, vitality, and being present for the life I’m building.
I love the outdoors. Nature resets me. Whether it’s a long walk, a hike, the ocean, or simply fresh air and open space, I feel most grounded when I’m moving and experiencing life fully.
Character is everything to me. I’m genuine, a gentleman, and a good man at my core. Honesty and integrity guide how I live and how I treat others. I don’t play games, I don’t entertain drama, and I don’t believe in half-hearted effort.
I’m a one-woman man. When I commit, I commit properly. I believe in loyalty, respect, and building something meaningful with intention.
I value peace. I respect space. Two independent people choosing each other — not needing to cling, but wanting to stand side by side. A partnership where we support each other’s interests, grow individually, and move through life as a team.
I enjoy deep conversation, laughter, affection, and shared adventures. I’m emotionally mature, steady, and clear about that.
About His Ideal Match
I’m looking to meet a woman between 45 and 60 who is kind, grounded, and genuine. A woman who values integrity, has a sense of humour, and is excited about life. Someone who understands that strong relationships are built on trust, respect, and friendship first.
No games. No pretence. Just two real people building something solid.
If you’re looking for your best friend, your partner, and someone who will have your back — we may be aligned.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
57 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
176cm (5' 9.3") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
None (Bald) | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
45 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
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