In Her Own Words
About Her
I value depth, honesty and meaningful conversation. Life has shaped me in ways that taught me resilience, empathy and perspective. I’m not here for instant sparks or surface-level flirting. I’m interested in friendship, spiritual and intellectual connection, and seeing where genuine understanding might lead.
I’m at a stage in life where I value meaningful connection and I’m open to meeting people who feel the same.
About Her Ideal Match
I’m looking for someone steady and reflective, someone who can hold distance from the chaos of the world and from their own ego. Independent thinking is essential to me. I admire those who question assumptions, resist social conditioning and choose their path consciously.
Depth of mind and spirit matters more to me than appearances. I’m drawn to people who value growth, who appreciate themselves without arrogance, and who are open to exploring different perspectives and ways of living.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
Poland | |
Location: |
Dublin, Dublin, Ireland | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
46 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
167cm (5' 5.7") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Polish | |
Other Languages: |
English; Italian; Japanese | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Faroe Islands; Ireland; Netherlands; Slovakia; United Kingdom; Canada; China; Japan; Mongolia; Australia | ||
Location: |
Ireland; Netherlands; United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
44 - 58 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
183cm (6' 0.0") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Below Average | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Chinese; English; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; Hebrew; Hindi; Italian; Japanese; Korean; Other | ||
Religion: |
Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Kosher; Hindu diet | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer; Legal; Retired; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Other; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Going to the theatre; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Electronic Dance Music; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Fantasy; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Knitting; Making Music; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Writing books; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Archery; Gymnastics; Hiking; Inline / Roller skating; Martial arts; Mountain biking; Sailing; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Greek; Italian; Japanese; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Flirting; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |