In Her Own Words
About Her
Boss mom. Outgoing introvert. Thick-skinned, self-aware, and crystal-clear about what I want.
Life’s too short to skip the sushi. I’m here for great food, great company, and a great laugh.
Sharp banter is a must, and honesty is non-negotiable. I like to know exactly where I stand—no games, no fluff.
I’m smart, direct, and unapologetically confident. Independent by nature, rule-bender by choice, and yes—I tend to command attention.
Sapiosexual. Adventure-seeker. Creative free spirit with a love for the outdoors. I split my time between chasing adrenaline, setting my own trends, and hanging with my two kids (we’re big Survivor fans).
Ambitious, goal-driven, and always planning the next adventure—even though I’ve already seen a bit of the world.
5'7", white—but definitely not vanilla.
🍣🥢♟️
About Her Ideal Match
😍 Attracted By
Qualities I love
principled
quiet
mysterious
deep
caring
altruistic
virtuous
having conviction
self-confident
independent
authentic
honest
stable
What Her Friends Say
Tokya hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Benoni, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
41 | |
Star Sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
170cm (5' 6.9") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English; Xhosa; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
E-cigarette User | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
170cm (5' 6.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Patience |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Jazz; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Business; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Game shows; Music Channels; News |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Investing; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Chess; Extreme sports; Running; Swimming; Walking; Water skiing |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Not any more |
Family Size: |
I'm an only child |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Exotic pet(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Honesty: |
Extremely |