In His Own Words
About Him
My friends would describe me as curious, thoughtful, and easy to talk to—someone who listens well and enjoys meaningful conversations. I like learning new things, being creative, and spending time with people who are genuine, and I dislike negativity and pointless conflict. I’m interested in ideas, stories, and understanding how people think, which I explore for fun by reading, thinking, and joking around. Overall, I try to enjoy the small things, stay open-minded, and keep a positive, steady outlook on life.
About His Ideal Match
I’m looking for someone kind, emotionally mature, and genuine—someone who communicates openly and has a good sense of humor. A relationship would work through mutual effort, trust, and the ability to talk things through while supporting each other’s growth. I’d love to share simple joys and new experiences together, from meaningful conversations and travel to everyday moments like cooking or long walks. Deal breakers for me are dishonesty, poor communication, disrespect, and a lack of emotional availability.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Katlehong, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
23 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
Ask me later | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Black | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Xhosa | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English; Sesotho; Swati; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Trying to Quit | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Benoni; Boksburg; Kempton Park; Vosloorus; Alberton; Bedfordview; Germiston; Katlehong; Midrand; Randburg; Sandton; Johannesburg (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
18 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 194cm (6' 4.4") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; A few extra pounds; Other; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Red; Black; Changes Often; Other; Balding | ||
Eye Colour: |
Black; Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Other | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English; Sepedi; Sesotho; Swati; Tswana; Xhosa; Zulu | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Atheist; Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
Yes | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
New Age; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; World |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
Business; Crime; Fantasy; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Motoring; Music Channels; Reality shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Computer programming; Cooking; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Reading; Shopping; Singing; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Body building; Boxing; Camping; Cycling; Golf; Hunting; Motorsport; Shooting; Soccer |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; Fast food; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Shopping |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Fish; Reptile(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |