In Her Own Words
About Her
Ek is lojaal eerlik en thoughtful. Amper tot eie detriment. Ek was seer gemaak en weet hoe dit is Sal nooit op rebound gaan of mense gebruik nie. Oop oë vriendskap. Ek kies jou v wie jy is core..nie wat jy het of jou sosiale stand nie. Eks ñ diere liefhebber en natuur persoon, eie kinders en baie lief v kinders. Sterk sin v humor kan sarkasme hanteer. Baie sterk en onafhanklik groot gemaak(enigste kind). Eks n prinses op haar eie perd met haar eie swaard. Maar nog Baie feminine. Eks nie impulsief nie maar avontuurlustig. Hou glad nie van skinder en fake wees. Haat leuens en bedrieers, sesde sintuig ken hulle gou uit. Ek Kan met enige iemand gesels en iets in gemeen kry. Eks ñ ambivert... enig iets anders vra. Eks Baie oop. Ek is n posetiewe optimistiese persoon maar wat hartseer en verlies en rou ken. Dis nie wat jy deur gaan nie..dit is alles in die feit Dat jy deur dit beweeg ... jy leer ..opstaan en aangaan. Baie logies maar romanties ook. Ek glo woorde is goed maar Dade wys jou ware intensies. As jy jok Sal ek jou nooit weer vertrou nie. Wees eerder eerlik. Ek is tweetalig groot gemaak en ek sien die core persoon raak. Sal nie sê eks 200% gevestig in lewe nie. Daars altyd plek v verandering en verbetering. 90% is ek mee gelukkig en tevrede met my lewe. Eks in die proses te skei. Baie lang storie. Uiteinde. Dit is verby. Al amper oor ñ jaar. Ek het gerou ek was op verneuk. Ek het vergewe. Hy is nog in my lewe maar letterlik net v die kinders. Ek hou dit amicable want ek was lief v hom gewees. En hy is die pa van my kinders. Maar ek en hy, teveel leuens seer en bedrieg v herstel. Ons het ook n besigheid saam maar word ontbind. En dit is wat Wie ookal met my vriende maak moet besef. Ek doen niks om my ex te spite of jaloers te maak nie. Eks opsoek na vriendskap miskien meer..maar dit is n proses. Ek wil my en my kinders se lewens verryk en opbou met konneksies. Vriendskapkringe ens. Baie belangrik. Dankie
About Her Ideal Match
Utters lojaal, tot die dood toe eerlik. Gemotiveerd, optimistic, Kan low mood wees party maal maar gou weer reg. Passie vir God, diere, natuur vir lewe. Moet my kinders Kan ten volle aanvaar as deel van my. Op die stadium is hulle my hart klop.
Verstaan ek vertrou nie vinnig nie. Of dit vriendskap is of langtermyn, stability it is belangrik. Moet naself Kan kyk finansieel. Kan sterk genoeg wees in persoonlikheid Dat ek hom Sal laat Lei.. maar nie n manipuleerder en kontroleerder. Sin vir humor. Moet aktief wees..Kan gaan stap of Kamp of saam met kids speel of net saam my iets gaan doen. As jy ñ gamer is en games speel leer my Dan sodat ek saam Kan game. Maak my deel van jou lewe..moenie my laat voel Dat jy dinge weg steek of dele van jou lewe geheimsinnig hou. Ek vind dit nie aantreklik nie.
Vernietig n verhouding? Leuens en geen kommunikasie. Negative jaloesie amper n manipulasie of control. Omdat ek intuitive is enige anterior motives...
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Boksburg, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
47 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
164cm (5' 4.6") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Ask me later | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Centurion; Cullinan; Pretoria; Benoni; Boksburg; Bronkhorstspruit; Kempton Park; Alberton; Bedfordview; Edenvale; Germiston; Midrand; Modderfontein; Randburg; Sandton; Heidelberg; Johannesburg (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 58 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; Navel ring |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Sarcastic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Moderation; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Gospel / Religious; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Romance; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Photography; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Athletics; Birdwatching; Body building; Camping; Cricket; Cycling; Gymnastics; Hiking; Horse Riding; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Rock climbing; Rugby; Running; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; Italian; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Exotic pet(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |