In His Own Words
About Him
Because when I care, I care deeply.
I show up with honesty, presence, and intention. I believe real connection isn’t rushed—it’s built through listening, laughter, shared silence, and choosing each other even on ordinary days.
In romance, I love with depth and sincerity. I’m not here for games or half-hearted affection. I value emotional safety, loyalty, and passion that grows stronger with time. I believe love should feel like peace, excitement, and home all at once—a place where two people grow, heal, and dream together.
In friendship, I’m genuine and dependable. I celebrate the people in my life, stand by them in hard moments, and laugh with them in the good ones. I believe true friendship is about trust, mutual respect, and showing up without needing a reason.
In companionship, I bring warmth, understanding, and consistency. I value meaningful conversations, shared goals, and the comfort of knowing you’re not walking life alone. I believe companionship is about choosing connection every day—through patience, kindness, and shared purpose.
At my core, I’m someone who values depth over surface, truth over pretense, and connection over convenience. Getting to know me means experiencing sincerity, emotional presence, and a heart that believes real bonds still matter.
About His Ideal Match
Emotionally mature, kind, curious, honest, affectionate, communicative, supportive, spiritually grounded, growth-oriented, loyal partner who values depth, peace, laughter, and purpose.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Centurion (Pretoria), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
36 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
Ask me later | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Coloured | |
Home Language: |
Ask me later | |
Other Languages: |
English; Ndebele; Sepedi; Sesotho; Swati; Tsonga; Tswana; Xhosa; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
It's Complicated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
21 - 48 | ||
Star Sign: |
Cancer; Leo; Libra; Capricorn | ||
Height: |
151cm (4' 11.4") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Brown | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African; Coloured; Other | ||
Home Language: |
Zulu | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English; Ndebele; Swati; Tsonga; Venda; Xhosa; Zulu; Other | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other; Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Sarcastic; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Jazz; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Business news; Card games; Cooking; Meditation; Painting; Reading; Singing; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Soccer |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I always cook at home |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Exercising |
Time Online: |
I'm online on weekdays only |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Flirting |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
House in the suburbs |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |