In Her Own Words
About Her
Because I’ve done the inner work. I understand myself, respect boundaries, and I’m capable of building something healthy and meaningful.
About Her Ideal Match
Is emotionally available and self-aware
Communicates openly and calmly, even during conflict
Respects my independence and my purpose
Values growth, healing, and depth (not just chemistry)
Is consistent — their words and actions match
Has done some inner work and takes responsibility for their patterns
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Kingsburgh, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
35 | |
Star Sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
178cm (5' 10.1") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Black | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Zulu | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Short-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Health / Social Care | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Scottburgh; Umkomaas; Amanzimtoti; Kingsburgh; Umhlanga; Ballito (KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
37 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Average | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
I don't have one |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Quiet |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Country & Western |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Painting; Pottery |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Gluten-free |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Tattoo(s); Wealth |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Politics: |
Very Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Nervous; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |