In Her Own Words
About Her
I’m an independent, thoughtful woman who values honesty, kindness, and real connection. I’m not in a rush, but I am serious about finding someone who’s ready for a genuine partnership. I appreciate good conversation, steady energy, and someone who shows up as they are. If you’re looking for something meaningful without the drama, we’ll get along well.
About Her Ideal Match
I’m looking for a man who is both intelligent and kind, someone who can hold a thoughtful conversation and treat people with genuine respect. It’s important that he lives in Gauteng and is willing to actually show up—go on real dates, spend time together, and build something meaningful step by step. I’m looking for someone who’s serious about finding a lasting relationship, not just passing time, and who values honesty, effort, and emotional maturity.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Sandton (Lone Hill), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
162cm (5' 3.8") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Agnostic | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
E-cigarette User | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
56 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Dutch; English; German | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Instrumental; Jazz; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Music Channels; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Documentary; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Cooking; Healthy living; Reading; Sewing; Woodworking |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Athletics; Camping; Golf; Hiking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Bird(s); Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Eco home in the bush |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |