In Her Own Words
About Her
Firstly, I have absolutely nothing to hide physically but I am desperately trying to cling to a modicum of privacy/respect in this current day social media frenzy of self-promotion…
If we get chatting, I am quite happy to show you a picture of myself but I do not want to be out there for all and sundry to see.
Right, with that now covered let us move on. I am a gentle, kind, caring person but I can also be a powerhouse if needs be.
I love the outdoors – beach & mountain walks, swimming, off road cycling, mountain climbing, gardening etc.
I also adore cooking with red wine & often add it to the food too.
I am an emotionally & spiritually mature, intelligent person. I don’t play games; I do not do dishonesty. I am true & real to a fault and I expect the same from the people who I get close to.
The ability to truthfully self-analyse and communicate openly & honestly is vital to me. Communication is not about winning a conversation it is about enjoying it, learning from it and growing from it if it offers you that, this is what makes conversing & connecting with others so exciting.
I am old enough and wise enough to know that to get this far in life, carrying a suitcase or two would not cause me to raise an eyebrow, however carrying (or claiming to) carry no baggage at all would!
Life is tough for everyone, in some way or another we have all suffered something. It is not about comparing who was hurt more than whom or who’s burden is the greatest to bear. It is about acknowledging that we all have burdens/hurt, regardless of the nature & that the only way forward is with love.
I also love animals, & respect Mother Earth enormously (she’s a single woman too😉)
I have an offbeat, mostly tongue in cheek sense of humour that not everybody gets...
I am not a frivolous person but I can certainly be lots of fun.
The earth is an exceptionally magnificent place, offering gifts abundant - mind blowing, soul soaring, heart thumping wonders - too beautiful to not be shared, in love, with another.
About Her Ideal Match
Intelligent, honest, caring, emotionally & spiritually mature.
Able to communicate, well-read, animal lover, outdoorsy, unselfish, giving and loving.
Music, earth & art lover, sensual, sensitive & kind.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Blaauwberg, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
167cm (5' 5.7") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
White | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
E-cigarette User | |
Drinking: |
Regular Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
45 - 70 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short; Curly |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Travel |
TV Shows: |
Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Nature / Wildlife; News; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Making Music; Meditation; Painting; Reading; Sculpting; Singing; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Bodyboarding; Camping; Chess; Cricket; Cycling; Darts; Handball; Hiking; Horse Riding; Pool; Rugby; Soccer; Surfing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Power; Thrill seeking |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |