In His Own Words
About Him
I think I finally understand something…
You weren’t looking for a relationship as much as you were looking for a financial savior.
Someone to help carry the pressure, the stress, the uncertainty and the weight life placed on you.
And maybe I cared enough that I ignored the warning signs because I wanted to believe what we had was real.
But I’ve realized love and rescue are not the same thing.
About His Ideal Match
I think the reason everything had to move so fast is because you weren’t really looking for slow, stable love…
You were looking for relief.
Relief from pressure, stress, loneliness, financial worries, fear… maybe even from yourself.
And when someone is looking for rescue, everything suddenly becomes “forever” very quickly.
But real love grows slowly.
It doesn’t rush to lock someone in before the foundation even exists.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Northern Suburbs (Durbanville), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
183cm (6' 0.0") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English; Other | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Regular Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Labour / Construction | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro; West Coast; Winelands; Overberg; Swartland; Breede River Valley (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
38 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | ||
Other Languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Moody; Naive; Optimistic; Outrageous; Outspoken; Pessimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Silly; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Minimal (Clothes are strictly optional) |
Favourite Clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite Colour: |
Brown |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Country & Western; Electronic Dance Music; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I hate it |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Educational; Motoring; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Computer programming; Cooking; Making Music; Photography; Pottery; Sculpting; Woodworking |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Athletics; Birdwatching; Camping; Chess; Cricket; Fishing; Hiking; Horse Riding; Motorsport; Rock climbing; Rugby; Running |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Socially |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Honesty: |
Extremely |