In Her Own Words
About Her
Open to all the possibilities that dating has to offer. Separated with 3 kids. Looking for someone in a similar situation who wants to hang out and enjoy life.
Share a bottle of wine and a good meal, clubbing on a Friday night or just a quiet coffee on a Sunday morning.
About Her Ideal Match
My ideal match is well educated, easy going and up for a little adventure. Who knows where life will take us.
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
Ireland | |
Location: |
Cork (Co Cork), South-West, Ireland | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
45 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
171cm (5' 7.3") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Red | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Atheist | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cork; Fermoy; Midleton; Mitchelstown (South-West, Ireland) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
45 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
183cm (6' 0.0") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Indian; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist | ||
Relationship Status: |
Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Quiet |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Friendliness; Honesty; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Mystery |
Interests: |
Healthy living; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Rugby |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Doesn't matter; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Loft in the city |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |