In Her Own Words
About Her
I listen deeply, love intentionally, and approach life with purpose, gratitude, and optimism, believing meaningful connection should feel like peace, growth, and mutual effort, not confusion or games.”
About Her Ideal Match
I’m drawn to an older, emotionally mature man who is secure, kind, communicative, values growth and stability, leads with integrity, and seeks a peaceful, purposeful partnership built on mutual respect.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
Lesotho | |
Location: |
City Bowl (Milnerton), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
31 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
162cm (5' 3.8") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Sesotho | |
Other Languages: |
English; Sepedi; Tswana | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
It's Complicated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Sales and Marketing | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
45 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African; Coloured; Indian; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Intelligent; Outspoken |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Humility; Patience; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My Armani suit / My Versace dress |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre |
Music Preferences: |
Gospel / Religious; Jazz; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Fiction; Romance |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Movie Channels; Reality shows; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Romance |
Interests: |
Card games; Cooking; Making Music; Photography; Shopping; Singing |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Athletics; Camping; Cycling; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Italian |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Stressed |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Shopping |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm seeing someone, but not exclusively |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
House in the suburbs |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Nervous; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |