In His Own Words
About Him
21-year-old Zimbabwean introvert with a big heart, a bigger imagination, and an unhealthy obsession with red velvet cake (seriously, it’s a personality trait at this point). I run my own microbakery—yes, I can bake you cookies and a future. When I’m not elbow-deep in dough, I’m writing fantasy worlds, drawing characters with trust issues, or rewriting plotlines at 3am because the vibes were off.
I dream of one day being both a husband and a published comic/manga author with a cozy bakery on the side—basically the anime version of a Hallmark movie protagonist. I’m shy, self-conscious, and geeky as heck. If you love animated fight scenes, deep lore, and characters who monologue too much, we’ll get along just fine. Bonus points if you can keep up with my rants about Fullmetal Alchemist, Bleach, or why Kingdom Hearts' plot is beautiful nonsense.
I’m a gamer (Elden Ring survivor and proud), budding historian, mythology nerd, and I garden for fun because plants don’t judge me. I love learning, baking, cooking (especially anything with rice or noodles), and working out to nu-metal bangers and Gregorian hymns—yeah, my playlists are confused, but we vibe.
My love languages are acts of service and words of affirmation, so expect surprise cookies and mildly awkward but sincere compliments. I value kindness, compassion, faith, and strength—a woman of God who’s both gentle and grounded, and not afraid of a little spiritual and emotional depth.
I’m not 100% sure I want kids, but I am 100% sure I want to love and lead someone through life with grace, growth, and a little bit of goofiness. I talk a lot about the media I love (or hate), and I’m a little sarcastic—but hey, at least you’ll never be bored.
Favorite Pokémon? Oshawott, Luxray, Snorlax, and Arcanine—aka the chaotic good squad. Favorite Bible verse? Matthew 6:34:Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own."
About His Ideal Match
An ideal match for me would be a kind-hearted, God-fearing woman who's both emotionally intelligent and spiritually grounded. She's someone who values faith, love, and growth—willing to walk through life with purpose, passion, and a little bit of playfulness. She’s compassionate, hardworking, and isn’t afraid to get her hands dirty—whether that’s in the garden, the kitchen, or pursuing her dreams.
She’s educated and curious about the world—a lifelong learner who can hold deep conversations about anything from theology to anime lore to historical mysteries. Bonus points if she loves storytelling, art, or just gets excited about fictional characters like I do. She's the kind of woman who can appreciate both a well-timed meme and a well-timed Bible verse.
She’s gentle but strong, nurturing but resilient. She’s not perfect (who is?), but she’s honest, supportive, and open to growing in love and in faith together. She understands that leadership and submission in a relationship are mutual acts of love and respect, not control or passivity. She wants to build something meaningful—whether that’s a home, a business, or just a shared life full of grace, laughter, and creativity.
She doesn’t mind quiet evenings, slow mornings, spontaneous baking sessions, or getting lost in conversation—or in a co-op game. She loves deeply, believes in the power of words, and knows that sometimes the best way to say “I love you” is with a warm meal, a kind word, and a listening heart.
And if she just so happens to love anime, video games, good food, and the occasional deep dive into fantasy or mythology? Well, that’s just icing on the red velvet cake.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Port Elizabeth (Red house Village), Eastern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
18 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
167cm (5' 5.7") | |
Body Type: |
Stocky | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Chinese; French; Japanese; Korean; Ndebele; Spanish; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Eastern Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
18 - 26 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
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Looks: |
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Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Coloured; Indian; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree | ||
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer; Finance; Food Services; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Sales and Marketing; Technical / Science / Engineering; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
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