In Her Own Words
About Her
I am recently widowed for the second time. I am really looking for a friend who wants to spend time with me and just to get to know each other.
I have many hobbies and interests: dirt bikes, 4x4, camping, traveling, crafting. I love music and have unique tastes in metal. I also play the piano and accordion and love composing music.
My 4 amazing boys are my main priority in life and hope to find someone who has kids as well.
I don't drink, but may on special occasions.
About Her Ideal Match
Fun loving man who is assertive but respectful. Open-minded. Similar tastes in music and similar religious and philosophical views.
Deal breakers: alcoholic, addict, narcissist
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Bakersfield, California | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
41 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Agnostic | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Ask me later | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Bakersfield (California) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Straight |
Body Art: |
Several tattoos |
Sense of Humour: |
Obscure |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outrageous; Outspoken; Realistic; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Electronic Dance Music; Heavy Metal; Punk; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Horror; Sci-Fi |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Cartoons; Documentaries; Educational; Game shows; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Horror; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Board games; Card games; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Cooking; Making Music; Photography; Sewing; Woodworking; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Bowling; Camping; Chess; Extreme sports; Fishing; Hiking; Martial arts; Motorsport; Snowboarding; Table Tennis; Volleyball |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Intelligence; Long hair; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Power |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Castle in Scotland |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Nervous; Curious; Embarrassed; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |

