In His Own Words
About Him
I’m a father of five who believes that life is too short for half-hearted love, vague intentions, and people who disappear when things get uncomfortable. I’ve lived through joy, loss, commitment, and the kind of moments that reshape a man from the inside. I don’t chase attention and I don’t pretend to be anything I’m not. If I’m here, it’s because I’m ready to meet someone real — someone who values honesty, loyalty, and warmth more than empty convenience.
I’m not looking for casual chaos or a distraction. I’m building something calm: a healthier life, a stronger body, and a home filled with laughter, growth, good food, and the kind of peace that comes from truth. I don’t need perfection. I don’t need a rescue. I want a partner who knows her own strength, who’s comfortable in her skin, who appreciates depth, affection, and conversation that goes further than “wyd”.
I believe in showing up for the people you care about. I believe in protecting what matters.I’ve raised children, built businesses, buried a wife I loved deeply, and learned that the right person doesn’t need to be impressed; she needs to be understood. And she should feel safe, not managed.
I value intelligence, kindness, integrity, and the kind of chemistry that’s more mental than physical — though physical matters too, especially when it’s grounded in connection. I’m not intimidated by honesty or emotion — I respect them. Tell me what you really think. Tell me what you want. Speak truth, even if it’s messy. I’d rather deal with real complexity than fake simplicity.
I don’t expect someone to love my kids instantly. They have their own world, and any relationship starts with two adults getting to know each other first. Family is not a hobby for me — it’s my life. If that scares you, we aren’t a match, and that’s okay.
If you’re here to build something grounded, passionate, and real — start with honesty, add laughter, and let’s see where it goes.
About His Ideal Match
A grounded, intelligent, financially independent woman who values honesty, loyalty and family. Warm, feminine, emotionally mature, with humour, depth, and the desire to build a peaceful, passionate life together.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
Zimbabwe | |
Location: |
Swakopmund, Namibia | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
193cm (6' 4.0") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Namibia | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Red | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Green | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; French; German; Other | ||
Other Languages: |
Other | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Medical / Dental; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Agriculture | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
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- Non-negotiable
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