In His Own Words
About Him
✨ How would your friends describe your personality?
They’d probably say I’m a mix of calm and driven — the kind of person who thinks deeply, works hard, and still cracks a clever joke at the right moment. I’m ambitious, grounded, loyal, and always trying to understand life on a deeper level. I’m the friend who brings solutions, not chaos.
✨ What are your likes and dislikes?
Likes:
Growth, learning new things, tech, AI, soccer, good conversations, meaningful connections, health, discipline, and a peaceful environment. I like people who are self-aware, down-to-earth, and know what they’re doing with their lives.
Dislikes:
Dishonesty, laziness, unnecessary drama, disrespect, inconsistency, and people who complain more than they act.
✨ Do you have any hobbies or interests?
Absolutely. I’m into software development, UX Design, machine learning, business strategy, gym and fitness, soccer, and exploring big ideas about life, space, and consciousness. I enjoy building things — apps, projects, plans — anything with purpose.
✨ What do you do for fun or to relax?
I play soccer, watch great players to improve my own game, hit the gym, explore new tech, or get lost in philosophical or cosmic topics. I enjoy listening to music, chilling with good company, or diving into something that sharpens my mind. Even coding can be relaxing for me.
✨ What is your outlook on life?
I see life as something you build, not something you just live. I believe in improving yourself, respecting the past, dreaming boldly about the future, and making an impact that matters. I’m driven, purposeful, and focused on creating a life that lifts me and the people around me.
About His Ideal Match
✨Ideal Match
I’m drawn to a woman who’s ambitious, emotionally intelligent, and grounded in who she is. Someone who dreams big, thinks deeply, respects tradition, and walks with quiet confidence. A partner with a good heart, a sharp mind, and a steady drive for personal growth.
✨What Makes Us Work
Honesty, communication, and consistency — that’s the foundation. I want a relationship where we push each other forward, support each other’s goals, and move like a united team. If we stay open, respectful, and genuinely invested, we’ll thrive.
✨What I Want to Share
I enjoy building things with someone — ideas, goals, plans. I’m big on deep conversations, gym sessions, soccer, cooking together, exploring new places, and quiet nights where we just exist in the same space. I love a partner who can match my energy mentally and physically.
❌Deal Breakers
Dishonesty, lack of ambition, disrespect, emotional immaturity, or inconsistency. If you avoid growth, create drama, or don’t value loyalty, we’re not a match.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Secunda, Mpumalanga, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
23 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Zulu | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Secunda (Mpumalanga, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
18 - 22 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
147cm (4' 9.9") - 172cm (5' 7.7") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African; Coloured; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Bachelors degree | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Medium |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I have cool side burns |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Intelligent; Optimistic; Quiet; Shy; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Favourite Clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite Colour: |
Gold |
Date Activities: |
A movie; Attending a sporting event; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; R&B / Soul; Reggae |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fantasy; Fiction; Religious; Romance; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Movie Channels; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Photography; Reading; Singing |
Sport Involvement: |
A professional athlete |
Sports: |
Snooker; Soccer; Swimming |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
French; Italian; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Sugar-free |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I DO have a bed in my office! |
Pastimes of choice: |
Exercising |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Socially |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Dog(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
Ultra-conservative |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Curious; Embarrassed; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |

