In Her Own Words
About Her
I’m someone who truly loves life and wants to enjoy every moment it gives me. With two amazing grown kids and more than enough time spent being single, I’m ready for a new chapter. I’m looking for a strong, secure man who loves God, is spiritually mature and awakened, already happy, and enjoying his life on his own — someone who wants to add to an already incredible life, not complete one. He must be emotionally and physically available, able to make me laugh, and definitely a great kisser. It’s time to live fully, open my heart, and embrace everything I deserve.
About Her Ideal Match
My ideal match is a strong, secure man who loves God and lives with purpose. He is spiritually mature and awakened, grounded in his faith and in himself. He’s already happy and fulfilled in his own life, and he’s looking for someone to add to that joy — not complete it.
He’s emotionally and physically available, present, and consistent. He can make me laugh easily, brings lightness into a room, and yes — he’s a great kisser who knows how to show affection. He’s someone who values deep connection, meaningful conversation, and shared moments. A man who chooses love with intention, leads with kindness, and isn’t afraid to show up fully.
A partner in joy, adventure, growth, and everything beautiful that life still has to offer.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg (Randburg), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
164cm (5' 4.6") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Indian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Ask me later | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
48 - 70 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
169cm (5' 6.5") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outspoken; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite Colour: |
Pink |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Gospel / Religious; Jazz |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Crime; History; Religious; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Documentary; Drama; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Meditation; Pottery; Reading; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; French; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've lost count |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |