In Her Own Words
About Her
My friends describe me as graceful, grounded, and quietly confident — the kind of person who brings calm to a room yet never fades into it. I value meaningful conversation, emotional intelligence, and people who show up as they truly are.
I enjoy beautiful simplicity — a good glass of wine, dinner with great company, spontaneous travel, and moments that make me pause and smile. I’m drawn to authenticity, kindness, and ambition, but I shy away from pretense, arrogance, or drama.
For fun, I love exploring new restaurants, spending time outdoors, curating calm spaces at home, and unwinding with music or a captivating book. Balance keeps me centered — between work and play, solitude and connection, elegance and ease.
My outlook on life is simple: live intentionally, love deeply, and leave people better than you found them. I believe that grace and ambition can coexist beautifully — and that’s exactly how I choose to live.
About Her Ideal Match
My ideal match is confident but grounded — someone who leads with purpose, kindness, and quiet strength. He knows who he is, yet remains open to growth. I’m drawn to men who are emotionally intelligent, ambitious without arrogance, and who understand that respect and communication are the foundation of any meaningful connection.
He enjoys good conversation, values quality over quantity, and carries himself with ease and intention. A sense of humor, curiosity, and genuine warmth go a long way.
Ultimately, I’m looking for someone who values partnership — a man who sees love as a shared journey where both people inspire, support, and elevate one another.
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
Botswana | |
Location: |
Gaborone, South East, Botswana | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
42 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
169cm (5' 6.5") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Tswana | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Ask me later | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
170cm (5' 6.9") - 184cm (6' 0.4") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Finance; Legal; Medical / Dental; Self-employed; Technical / Science / Engineering; Agriculture | ||
Income: |
Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any; Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Outgoing; Quiet; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Gospel / Religious; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; World |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Business; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Motoring; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Talk shows; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Sci-Fi |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Aerobics; American Football; Archery; Athletics; Baseball; Basketball; Bowling; Boxing; Bungee jumping; Camping; Canoeing; Chess; Curling; Extreme sports; Fishing; Golf; Handball; Hang- / Paragliding; Hiking; Horse Riding; Hunting; Motorsport; Running; Scuba diving; Sky diving; Snooker; Snorkeling; Soccer; Squash; Surf skiing/kayaking; Swimming; Tennis; Volleyball; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Taking a class |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Flirting |
Work Aspirations: |
Fire the boss |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Excited; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |