In His Own Words
About Him
I’m an alpha male with a calm and focused presence. I love the ocean and spend time biking to clear my mind. Friends describe me as kind, grounded, and loyal. I think deeply, act with purpose, and care about people and causes that matter. Those close to me say they value my strength, empathy, and the balance I bring between intellect and heart.
About His Ideal Match
My ideal match is kind, emotionally aware, and values honesty and respect. She takes care of her health, enjoys meaningful conversation, and has a curious, intelligent mind. A strong relationship for me is built on trust, consistency, and shared goals. I’d like to share travel, outdoor adventures, workouts, and quiet time by the ocean. Dishonesty, disrespect, or emotional games would be deal breakers.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Bulwer (Durban), KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
178cm (5' 10.1") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Mixed | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Muslim | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Halaal | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
178cm (5' 10.1") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Muslim | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | ||
Education: |
Bachelors degree | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
None |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion Sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee |
Music Preferences: |
R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Non-fiction |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Motoring; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Horror; Romance |
Interests: |
Computer & video games; Meditation; Reading; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
A professional athlete |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Baseball; Boxing; Canoeing; Cricket; Cycling; Horse Riding; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Shooting; Skateboarding; Surfing; Swimming |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Greek; Indian; Japanese; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Volunteering |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Socially |
Family Size: |
I don't have any family |
Family Closeness: |
I don't have any family! |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Showing affection in public; Power; Tattoo(s); Wealth |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious Attendance: |
More than once a week |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Doing volunteer work |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |