In His Own Words
About Him
I’m a man who’s lived through deep love and loss, and I still believe in the beauty of companionship. Widowed after a long, meaningful marriage, I’m now looking for someone who values honesty, loyalty, and the quiet joy of everyday moments. I’m not here for games or drama just real connection, shared laughter, and someone to walk beside through life’s ups and downs. I enjoy good food, thoughtful conversation, and the kind of peace that comes from being with someone who truly understands you. I take pride in being emotionally present, respectful, and kind. If you’re someone who appreciates sincerity, warmth, and a partner who shows up with his whole heart, I’d love to get to know you.
About His Ideal Match
She’s emotionally wise, kind, and grounded. A woman who’s lived through life’s ups and downs and still believes in love not the flashy kind, but the steady, comforting kind that feels like home. She’s honest, loyal, and knows how to communicate with warmth and respect. No games, no pretense just someone who shows up with her whole heart.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
Germany | |
Location: |
Umhlanga, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
65 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
183cm (6' 0.0") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Changes Often | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
German | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Labour / Construction | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
58 - 89 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; White | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English; German; Italian; Polish; Portuguese | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Muslim; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox; Sikh | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegan; Kosher; Halaal | ||
Smoking: |
Occasional; Regular; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Other; Agriculture; Political; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intellectually Challenged |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
History; Romance; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Educational; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Independent; Romance; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Writing books; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Camping; Cycling; Fishing; Golf; Hiking; Soccer |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; German; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Volunteering |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like them Well Done ;) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
More than once a week |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Doing volunteer work |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |