In His Own Words
About Him
I’m a down-to-earth, loyal guy who believes in honesty, kindness, and effort. I’ve been through some challenges, but they’ve made me stronger, calmer, and more grateful for the simple things — good coffee, laughter, peace, and time with my daughter.
I’m building a solid life, focusing on my work and growth, but I still believe in real connection — the kind built on trust, shared values, and genuine care.
About His Ideal Match
Someone warm-hearted, grounded, and kind. A woman who knows what she wants, loves to laugh, and values depth over drama.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
47 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Port Elizabeth (Eastern Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 56 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
155cm (5' 1.0") - 183cm (6' 0.0") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Yes | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Devotion; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Documentary; War |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Business news; Cooking; Healthy living; Woodworking |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Cricket; Hiking; Rugby; Running; Scuba diving |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Power |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement Plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |