In Her Own Words
About Her
I’m a kind, giving, and thoughtful woman who’s been in a long-term relationship (17years) that has sadly ended and we have decided to carry on coexisting respectfully while having the house on sale and decided on other legalities. For now, we share a home for the sake of our child, but we live separate lives.
We are not married: Should either of us find ourselves in new relationship its not an issue and chances he its just non of my concern in all fairness. At this point he is considering retuning to Europe.
I’m not here for judgement or to be preached to — this is my personal journey, and I’m simply seeking peace and genuine companionship. Life has its struggles, but I’m hopeful about meeting someone who understands and appreciates authenticity. Friendship is very important to me.
I love nature and anything to do with the ocean — that’s where I find calm and clarity. I hike three times a week to stay grounded and fit. I appreciate art, architecture, and beautiful things, and I take pride in dressing with timeless elegance — think Audrey Hepburn meets Coco Chanel.
Grace, poise, and kindness are what I bring into any space, and I’m hoping to meet someone who values the same.
I have a stable life , meaning no drama. Ive just been unlucky in love but that does not mean I am broken or desperate. I dont want to inherit any problems. I won't be rushed or pressured into anything, So friendship is a wonderful place to start.
About Her Ideal Match
I’m looking for a mature, well-travelled, and emotionally intelligent man who values peace, depth, and balance. Someone established, confident, and grounded — who understands that life isn’t always perfect but still chooses to move with grace.
He should be educated, articulate, and curious about the world — someone who enjoys art, culture, economics, and thoughtful conversation. I’m drawn to men who take care of themselves, are clean and well-groomed, and have a strong yet gentle presence.
I’m not seeking drama, judgement, or sermons — only understanding, respect, and connection. Boundaries are important to me, but so is warmth, affection, and emotional attentiveness.
Ultimately, I hope to meet an older gentleman who is supportive, romantic, inspiring, and genuine — someone who values elegance, kindness, and quiet strength as much as I do. Ill be a source of reason and calm, balance.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Sandton, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
39 | |
Star Sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
43 - 100 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Muslim; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Technical Diploma; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Straight; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; Navel ring; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
Attending a sporting event; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Instrumental; Jazz; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock; World |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Romance; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Educational; Motoring; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Photography; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sports: |
Bowling; Fishing; Golf; Hiking; Motorsport; Running; Sailing; Skiing; Swimming; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Fine Dining; French; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Gardening |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |