In His Own Words
About Him
Most Importantly, Connection and Belongings: knowing others fosters relationships, creating a sense of belong and community..
Understanding and Empathy: gaining insight into another person's thoughts, feelings and experiences promote empathy 🙏
Trust and safety: knowing someone can build trust 🙏💗
About His Ideal Match
“I’m drawn to someone who is honest, emotionally mature, and values growth—someone who knows who they are but is still open to evolving. “I appreciate someone who can make me laugh but also knows when to be serious and supportive. “I want a partner who communicates openly, respects me, and shows up consistently—not just with words but with actions. “It’s important to me that we both have goals and support each other’s ambitions while still making time for each other. I’m attracted to someone who takes care of themselves and is driven in their own way. 👍Bonus points if you enjoy deep conversations, random laughter, and can recommend a good movie or book.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
Nigeria | |
Location: |
Lagos (Ikeja), Lagos, Nigeria | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
40 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
178cm (5' 10.1") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Germany; Ireland; Netherlands; Portugal; United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 183cm (6' 0.0") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Dutch; English; German; Portuguese | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Muslim; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Married; Separated; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegan; Halaal | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Agriculture; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Realistic; Shy |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Humility; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Natural (I only wear natural fabrics) |
Favourite Colour: |
White |
Date Activities: |
Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Fish; Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Dancing; Flirting; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Excited |