In Her Own Words
About Her
So, my photo caught your eye — thank you. This photo was taken in November 2025 without any filters. Now let’s see if I can keep your attention without boring you to death.
There’s no doubt I am lady like, but don’t let that fool you. I love to relax, have fun, laugh, and yes, I do have a bit of a naughty streak and a fantastic sense of humor.
I’m honest, loyal, very caring, and supportive, and I have a deep love for the outdoors and nature. I enjoy walking, hiking, freshwater fishing, and capturing beautiful moments with my camera — especially birds, sunsets, and sunrises. I’m ready to share my passion for life and nature with someone special who appreciates an authentic, affectionate, and loyal woman.
If you are obsessed with only the outer beauty, then I am not an ideal match for you. Boy, you are missing out on a great, authentic woman.
I do not smoke, drink a glass of wine on occasion and my two children are adults and flown the coup. I'm ready to find a special man to adore and share happiness with.
About Her Ideal Match
I sometimes wonder if true gentlemen still exist — men who look for the full package, not just the outer wrapping that time inevitably wears. Interested in who I am as well as how I present and carry myself, what value we can add to each other and our families and friends.
My perfect match is confident, driven, and honest. He takes care of himself — mind, body, and soul — but isn’t obsessed with perfection. Like me, he loves the outdoors, whether it’s a peaceful walk, a bit of fishing, or a weekend getaway.
I do have a weakness for taller men that are not slim. Big hands, friendly eyes and someoe who smell nice. Bonus points, but not a deal breaker. Just be authentic please.
I value affection, shared laughter, and a man who’s proud to hold my hand. I’m drawn to someone who’s excited about his life and ready to build something meaningful together — discovering new places, being outdoors, enjoys music and photography, and making ordinary moments extra-special, even if it’s just a picnic in the garden.
Please be honest about your height, career, and relationship status — Why have ask me later answers? Get ready to live life to the fullest — we might just get along beautifully and create magic together.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Southern Suburbs (Harfield Village), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
171cm (5' 7.3") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
50 - 75 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") - 195cm (6' 4.8") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Indian; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Finance; Legal; Medical / Dental; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Curly |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Optimistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Jazz; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Crime; Mystery; Romance; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Movie Channels; Music Channels |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Business news; Gardening; Healthy living; Photography; Reading |
Sports: |
Fishing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Italian; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a month |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |