In His Own Words
About Him
I’m someone who finds joy in small moments—whether it’s a deep conversation over coffee or a spontaneous road trip.
Friends say I’m warm, fun, and genuine, and I like to think I bring out the best in people around me.
I love exploring new experiences, laughing until my cheeks hurt, and sharing meaningful connections.
If you enjoy curiosity, kindness, and a little bit of adventure, we’ll probably get along really well.
About His Ideal Match
Someone who is kind, confident, and knows how to make the people around them feel special.
A person with a good sense of humor who can laugh at life’s little quirks and not take everything too seriously.
Someone adventurous or curious—open to trying new things, exploring, and making memories together.
Emotionally intelligent and communicative, someone who values connection, honesty, and genuine conversation.
Bonus points if you enjoy spontaneous adventures, deep talks over coffee, or dancing in the kitchen.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Blaauwberg (Milnerton royal ascot), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
41 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
171cm (5' 7.3") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Hebrew | |
Religion: |
Jewish | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Associates degree | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro; Franschhoek; Paarl; Stellenbosch; Wellington (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
27 - 39 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Coloured; Indian; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Yes; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan; Kosher | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Moderation; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
A leather biker's jacket |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Dance / Disco; Heavy Metal; New Age; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Movie Channels; Reality shows; Sport; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Cricket; Pool; Rugby; Table Tennis; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Fast food; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Quite |