In His Own Words
About Him
It’s been five years since my wife passed, and I’m finally in a place where I’m ready to move forward. This site brought love into my life once before—maybe it can again. I’m a genuine man who values connection, laughter, and partnership. Maybe our story starts with a simple hello.
About His Ideal Match
I know some might think I’m looking to replace my wife, but that’s not possible—every person is unique. What I am looking for is someone who wants to truly share life with me, not just live beside me.
I believe in love at first sight, and I’m ready for something real.
I’m not searching for a princess to rescue, but a queen to stand beside me as we face life’s challenges together.
And one more thing—if you’re the type who will still hold my hand during a beach walk when we’re old and grey, then I’d love to hear from you.
What His Friends Say
Onlymewp hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Northern Suburbs, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star Sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Northern Suburbs; Helderberg (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
45 - 61 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
147cm (4' 9.9") - 180cm (5' 10.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Self-control |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Sport |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Drama; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |