In Her Own Words
About Her
I am a woman who has built a highly successful, vibrant life and learned the value of profound inner reflection. I am deeply drawn to esoteric philosophy, Jungian psychology, and the quiet magic of the natural world. At home, I share my sanctuary—a fixer-upper I’ve transformed into a terraced garden of fountains—with my two beloved cats. My life is rich and full; I do not need a partner, but I would absolutely love to find a thoughtful, kindred spirit to share my life and laughter and fire- pit with on a cold winter’s evening. I keep up with the news cycle and try not to stick my head in the sand or become too cynical when it all becomes overwhelming. My girlfriends are far better in the kitchen than I am. I do yoga rather badly, and this week I am about to embark on golf lessons which I hope to do more elegantly than the yoga. Until last year I lived in the Cape and one day I plan to get back there, but for now I navigate my life in Gauteng.
About Her Ideal Match
I am drawn to a man who is entirely his own person. You likely have a rugged edge, feeling just as at peace in the quiet of the South African bush as you are walking near the sea or in the mountains. I am looking for a gentleman who has done his own inner work, is emotionally mature enough to be present and hold space during difficult conversations. I am not looking for perfection but safety and consistency and someone who looks forward not backwards. Not a barefoot monk but someone who might have a quiet affinity for Buddhist principles but can laugh out loud at dark humour. Does anyone like this actually exist, she asks? And most importantly, a man who has never lost his sense of wonder when he looks up at the stars at night.
And to the cat fishers on this site…I see you.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Sandton, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
63 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
153cm (5' 0.2") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Western Cape; Eastern Cape; KwaZulu-Natal; Mpumalanga; Limpopo; Gauteng; Free State, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
58 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Aries; Taurus; Leo; Virgo; Libra; Scorpio; Sagittarius; Aquarius; Pisces | ||
Height: |
171cm (5' 7.3") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; English; French; German; Norwegian | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Sikh | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Legal; Government; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Agriculture; Political | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Business; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Nature / Wildlife; News |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Reading; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Canoeing; Cycling; Golf; Hiking; Mountain biking; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Power; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |