In Her Own Words
About Her
I’m warm, grounded, and quietly fierce. I’ve built a life I love—rooted in purpose, peppered with laughter, and always evolving. I love the ocean, mountain walks, good books, deep conversations, and spontaneous road trips. Dance, kickboxing, and yoga keep me moving; soulful connection keeps me inspired.
I’m not into games, ego-driven bravado, or small talk that goes nowhere. But if you’re emotionally mature, open to growth, and can laugh with (and at) yourself, we’ll get along just fine. I’m here for real connection—something that feels safe, strong, and a little bit magical.
About Her Ideal Match
A man who knows who he is. Someone grounded and emotionally steady, who leads with quiet confidence and holds space for real connection. He’s protective without being possessive, ambitious with heart, playful without immaturity. He doesn’t flinch at vulnerability, values growth, and wants a love built on truth, laughter, trust, and mutual respect. He’s strong in his masculinity but deeply kind—and ready to build something meaningful.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
Zimbabwe | |
Location: |
Southern Peninsula (Cape Town), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
47 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
169cm (5' 6.5") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Teacher / Professor | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
43 - 57 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
166cm (5' 5.4") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; White; None (Bald); Other; Balding; Shaved | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Other | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Other; Agriculture; Political; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short; Medium; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My swimming trunks / bikini |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Fiction; History; Mystery; Romance; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Movie Channels |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Romance |
Sports: |
Boxing; Hiking; Pool; Snorkeling; Stand Up Paddleboarding; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Honesty: |
Extremely |