In His Own Words
About Him
We’re a married couple open to the companionship of another woman. We value honesty and feel that trust and respect are less about possession and more about unconditional love and support.
In keeping with the monogamous predisposition of most women, my wife is not looking for anything other than platonic friendship. As a man, with what I think can be fairly described as a typically male predisposition for polygamy, I would be open to physical intimacy should the tide move in that direction of course.
Fully aware of the difficulties that arise when anything other than blanket monogamy is proposed. It’s as if it’s a winner-takes-all competition that pits patriarchal monogamy, ironically enough, in a head-to-head contest with polygamy - historically associated with matriarchy. It’s daft.
It comes down to ideology and childhood conditioning taking precedence over reason and reality. It should not be this way. There’s always resistance to change, but just think about the many adverts you must have seen depicting a happy chappy. Invariably these ads depict a bloke with a cigar surrounded by women. That’s us! We love women and are equipped by Mother Nature to love more than one simultaneously...
About His Ideal Match
Which is not to say that a man can’t be happy in a monogamous relationship. He can, but the most optimal conditions for peace, harmony, and sustainability to prevail, would be to dispense with divisive words like “monogamy’ and “polygamy” and allow relationships to move seamlessly and organically from one circumstance to another, without interference, prejudice, judgement, labels or heavy breathing of any description.
“Unconditional” means without terms and conditions, and till-the-death monogamy is anything but unconditional. In any event, I’d be both surprised and delighted to have a response to this listing. It’s what’s called a long shot.
Regardless of which, I think two lovely ladies chatting on the verandah, while this old man serves drinks, cooks and makes fire, is a fine idea and an arrangement particularly well suited to older folk.
It’s not about choosing between monogamy and polygamy. It’s about respecting that males and females are different, and accommodating these differences in a way that synchronizes gender energy and makes for a whole greater than the sum of its parts. All of nature can’t be wrong and bending the knee to ideology is neither mandatory nor empowering. Let’s make our own rules!
Lady we have in mind would be in 60 to 80 range. What we are offering, to a compatible woman, is an opportunity to break free from restrictive dogma, and to join hands with us in making our sunset years an exciting and enriching journey of discovery and growth.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Hermanus, Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
74 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Atheist | |
Relationship Status: |
Married | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Hermanus (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
60 - 80 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
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- Non-negotiable
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