In His Own Words
About Him
My Name is Ben.
I have 2 kids that stays with me. I don't mind having more.
Finding the right person... that is difficult. One thing I ask, don't compare me with the rest.
What you see is what you get.
I'm not like other men. respectful, honest, straightforward
I'm not perfect that is why I'm not judgemental.
I have a wicked dark sarcasm sense of humour. I'm also a bit naughty 😈
You have never met anyone like me...
Want to know me? Let's talk
About His Ideal Match
I dont care how you look, what you did in your past, or what you do for a living.
Age is just a number
I would love to have a woman that is...
*honest, straightforward and respectful
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Polokwane (Pietersburg) (Pietersburg), Limpopo, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
41 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
198cm (6' 6.0") | |
Body Type: |
Stocky | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An exhibitionist |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Outrageous; Quiet; Sarcastic; Shy; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Natural (I only wear natural fabrics) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Gospel / Religious; Heavy Metal; New Age; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Romance; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Dramas; Educational; Motoring; Music Channels; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; Westerns |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Making Music; Painting; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Athletics; Birdwatching; Body building; Boxing; Camping; Chess; Cricket; Cycling; Dancesport; Darts; Extreme sports; Field Hockey; Fishing; Flying / Gliding; Hiking; Horse Riding; Hunting; Ice Hockey; Ice Skating; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Pool; Rock climbing; Rowing; Rugby; Running; Scuba diving; Shooting; Skateboarding; Skiing; Sky diving; Snorkeling; Surfing; Table Tennis; Walking; Water skiing; Weight training; Wrestling |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; Fast food; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've lost count |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Fish |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a month |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Honesty: |
Very |