In His Own Words
About Him
I am a happy, contented, active and really positive person. I have a successful IT business that keeps me busy and motivated. I have two wonderful adult children and lots of special friends. What is missing is that special person to complete my life as I would strive to complete hers. There is so much more I can tell you. I am a good communicator, interesting and honest. I hope to hear from you so we can continue our stories and journies together...
About His Ideal Match
I believe a relationship must start with honesty, with honesty will come trust, with trust will come respect and this bond is the foundation of the incredible love that we all deserve. Of course we need attraction and chemistry to ignite the flame. I am attracted by kindness, honesty, intelligence, sense of humour and humility. There must also be a physical, mental, emotional and spiritual connection. I dislike Narcissists intensely and I speak from experience. So much to consider to make a relationship work and the only way to start is by communicating. Ask me anything and you will get a truthful answer!
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Sandton, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
71 | |
Star Sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
176cm (5' 9.3") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
None (Bald) | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
55 - 72 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
153cm (5' 0.2") - 183cm (6' 0.0") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
None |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A cruiser |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Chemistry; Faithfulness; Honesty; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Folk; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Mystery |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cooking / Baking; Movie Channels; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Drama; Mystery |
Interests: |
Cooking; Healthy living |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Athletics; Cricket; Fishing; Golf; Rugby; Scuba diving; Surfing; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Exercising |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |