In Her Own Words
About Her
I’m 41, grounded, and comfortable in my own skin.
Not perfect — but real, present, and open. I’m not here to compete or perform. I value depth, effort, and quiet confidence.
About Her Ideal Match
I’m drawn to a man who is content with himself, doesn’t seek validation from the outside world, and believes love grows through intention, not games. If you’re someone ready to rewrite your love story — with honesty, patience, and effort — we might understand each other.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
Botswana | |
Location: |
Molepolole, Kweneng, Botswana | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
41 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
155cm (5' 1.0") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Other | |
Other Languages: |
English; Ndebele; Tswana | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
39 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
157cm (5' 1.8") - 174cm (5' 8.5") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Shy |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Lactose-free |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Relationship Type: |
I'm seeing someone, but not exclusively |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Honesty: |
Extremely |