In Her Own Words
About Her
I tried to re-write these two sections a number of times. What makes it difficult is that every day I find more about myself - what experience I would like to have in a partnership and I have to re-write the script. But it is fun after all. I know the right person will one day come to my life - sources unknown and unimaginable. So let me try again.
What do I enjoy: sunrise in a game reserve, a camera in my hands, a cup of tea with someone I care about, or a deep conversation that wanders into philosophy, science, spirituality, or the mysteries of being human. I enjoy easy to moderate hikes. My meditational activities include tai chi, colouring and other art forms, cooking, and gardening. I also enjoy reflective writing and exploring my own growth and evolution. On the more intellectual side, I love logic puzzles, brain teasers, maths problems, physics and anything that sparks curiosity — from Curiosity Stream to good science videos. And yes, I also sometimes enjoy romantic comedies.
I am passionate about personal growth, living with intention, and becoming the best version of myself one small step at a time. This is not a hobby for me — it is a way of living with authenticity, joy, and emotional freedom. I’m spiritual in a practical, grounded way: curious, reflective, and free from ritual or dogma. I try to “walk the talk” as much as possible.
I live with gratitude and a deep appreciation for the beauty of life. When I wake up and see the sun is rising, the earth is spinning and I am given oxygen to breath without me doing anything, I know that I am supported and I should not worry about anything that happens around me. Neither I should worry about what happens around the world. Not worry about things does not equate to I do not care (so please do not project on me your own conditioned mind). It means I care more as my energy is not wasted on worrying about things I cannot change.
About Her Ideal Match
Do you feel already happy and content? And you look for someone to add more happiness to your life? Do you react and resist when things happen in your life that you do not like or they do not go your way? Or do you rather take them as a lesson to be learned?
I may want to ask you to answer the above questions.
I’m drawn to men who value personal growth, who are emotionally available, communicate honestly, who are authentic, mature, optimistic, handle life with calmness and humour, and are responsive to life rather than reactive. Men who do not play victim to the outside world, who are easy going, allowing and accepting of people and situations. Peaceful, enjoying life. Being into technology & sciences is a BIG bonus.
I am looking for an experience of mutual intimacy (into-me-see), mutual support, appreciation, and admiration. I would like to experience closeness, satisfaction, being pleased and to look forward to wake up next to my partner. I would like playfulness, sensuality, affection, feeling of a closer bond between body and soul. A closer bond feels alive, loving, and authentic - where both people invest time, presence, and energy into each other.
I’m flexible as I run online businesses, so I can travel sometimes as long as I’m connected to fast internet. Ideally, I would prefer someone who has at least some time that allows connection to flourish.
If this resonates, say hello. I don’t bite… unless requested. 😉
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
Bulgaria | |
Location: |
Randburg (Johannesburg (Montgomery Park)), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star Sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
162cm (5' 3.8") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Other | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Centurion; Cullinan; Pretoria; Benoni; Boksburg; Kempton Park; Bedfordview; Edenvale; Germiston; Krugersdorp; Midrand; Modderfontein; Randburg; Roodepoort; Sandton; Johannesburg (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
50 - 72 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") - 190cm (6' 2.8") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious; Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Other; Agriculture; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Curly |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Business; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Computer programming; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Reading; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Hiking; Martial arts; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Greek; Indian; Italian; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |