In Her Own Words
About Her
A tad out my comfort zone, but i am guessing... nothing ventured... nothing gained🤗
I'm a pretty laid back type of person. I have a good sense of humor, always enjoying a good laugh.
I have had the good ... and the not so good, so know all walks of life🙃 You cant live in the past (we all have one) we learn, grow and move on.
So a little about me. . . I enjoy the simple things...like unplanned road trips ....spending time on the beach or in nature....fireplace and movies on a cold winter days.
I don't sweat the small stuff and I'm not high maintenance 😃
I'm not into pubs and bars, but I do enjoy the company of friends and family around a more tranquil setting.
I am affectionate and if in a relationship, that person is all i focus on. I am not looking for a fling, rather a meaningful relationship that lasts. I want to be the reason you feel content and happy...the reason for your smiles... as you will be mine.
My Christian values are important and i am hoping to find someone with similar values.
About Her Ideal Match
Someone who is well grounded, ( and groomed 😉😁)..down to earth and easy going.
I appreciate Honesty an faithfulness...someone that is as good a listener as communicator.
In short ... a friend, lover, partner in crime and life partner, all rolled into one...
My Afrikaans is heel goed, so as jy graag wil skryf is jy welkom om dit in Afrikaans te doen.
So if you tick the boxes and you the "old school type"...then this vacancy is for you..!
Please apply 😉
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Port Elizabeth, Eastern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
49 | |
Star Sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Ask me later | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Port Elizabeth Area; Grahamstown - Port Alfred; Southern Coast (Eastern Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
44 - 56 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
170cm (5' 6.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Country & Western; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; Reggae |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows; Soap operas; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a month |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |