In Her Own Words
About Her
Warm, friendly, and calm, I approach life with curiosity and optimism. I’m semi-retired and work in health and healing, which I find deeply fulfilling. I enjoy meaningful conversations, connect easily with people, and value emotional intelligence. I think a little outside the box and appreciate both rich life experiences and life’s simple pleasures—good conversation, laughter, and a sense of ease.
About Her Ideal Match
I’m drawn to a man who is mature, intelligent, and wise, with warmth, sensitivity, and a caring nature. Someone who is non-judgemental, emotionally aware, positive, and down to earth—and who enjoys life, laughter, and meaningful connection.
My life is already rich and fulfilling, and I would love to share it, or parts of it, with a man who can be a true friend and companion—a soul mate in the making—who appreciates what I bring and is happy to reciprocate by sharing his own life experiences. A good male friend, built on trust, ease, and mutual respect, would also be very welcome.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Southern Suburbs (Plumstead), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
73 | |
Star Sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
155cm (5' 1.0") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Changes Often | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
50 - 80 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
163cm (5' 4.2") - 187cm (6' 1.6") | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; R&B / Soul; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Fiction; Non-fiction; Romance; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Movie Channels; Music Channels |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Reading; Sewing; Surfing the Internet; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Camping; Hiking; Running; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Greek; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
My friends are my main family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |







