In His Own Words
About Him
I am a decent, loving, reliable and self-respected mature gentleman. I have respect for myself and for other people around me. I treat others as they treat me. I have a lot of love to give in My big heart. I do not believe in wasting time fighting about nonsense, but rather to sit down and properly communicating and sort out the problem. Therefore, I do not believe in divorce. I am looking for my partner who be by my side for the rest of our lives together. When it comes to love I do not believe playing in games. I want to start out as friends so that our friendship/relationship can be built on a strong foundation for our future together, I do not believe that one must rush love. I am looking for a loving adult woman whom I can love unconditionally, someone whom I can hold in my arms and be able to tell her and show how much I love her. I am a man who likes to be intimate and I love to give kisses and hugs, I like physical intimate contact in a relationship. I won't be ashamed to kiss her or hold her hand in public. There is so much more I want and can say, but that's all for now. Please feel free to ask questions and I will answer.
About His Ideal Match
I am looking for a loving adult woman whom I can love unconditionally, someone whom I can hold in my arms and be able to tell her and show how much I love her. Someone with whom I can be open with no secrets and lies. A mature woman who knows what and who she wants in her life. A woman who is ready for real love and no childish games. She must be a woman who will always be honest with me and who wants to spend her life with me. She must also love physical contact and not be she to hold my hand in public and to kiss me when ever she wants to. She must be open broad minded and willing to try new things to keep our relationships love shining bright always. There is much more I want to say but this is all for now. Feel free to ask questions.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Orania (Oranis), Northern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
41 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Food Services | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Petrusville; Hopetown; Orania (Northern Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
25 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 183cm (6' 0.0") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Arabic; German; English; French; Hindi; Japanese; Dutch; Chinese; Other | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; Partnered | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Struggling; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Intelligent; Mild; Moody; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Motoring; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Sci-Fi; Soap operas; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
American Football; Archery; Basketball; Birdwatching; Body building; Camping; Cycling; Fishing; Flying / Gliding; Golf; Hang- / Paragliding; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Hockey; Martial arts; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Rock climbing; Rowing; Rugby; Scuba diving; Shooting; Skiing; Snorkeling; Snowboarding; Soccer; Softball; Surfing; Walking; Wrestling |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Go Out to Eat: |
I always cook at home |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Stressed |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Power; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Other |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Excited |
Honesty: |
Very |





