In His Own Words
About Him
🌿 Seeking a Soulful Connection — Female Platonic Friendship 🌿 30 's + childless
I’m looking to build a genuine, heart-centered online friendship with a woman who values meaningful conversations, emotional depth, and shared laughter. Someone who enjoys exploring life’s ideas, big or small — from simple daily joys to thoughtful reflections on the world around us.
✨ About the kind of connection I’m seeking:
Honest, kind, and emotionally intelligent
Values consistency and mutual respect
Comfortable sharing thoughts, feelings, and a bit of vulnerability
Appreciates both lighthearted banter and soulful, late-night chats
Interested in growing a sincere friendship over time — not rushed, not superficial
🌸 What I bring:
A good listener and thoughtful communicator
Loyal and reliable in friendship
A curious mind with a warm, calm presence
Open to exchanging stories, cultural perspectives, personal growth journeys, or just everyday life moments
If you’re someone who believes that true friendships can bloom beautifully online — through empathy, trust, and shared energy — I’d love to connect.
About His Ideal Match
loyal, team player, respectful, honest, smart, independent, kind, humble, settle disputes peacefully, communicate effectively, sport, vibrant humorous personality, outdoors, friendship
I have a brand new heart to give to someone to give to and share with and hope to meet such as well.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Durban (Chatsworth), KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
48 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
170cm (5' 6.9") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Black | |
Ethnicity: |
Indian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Hindu | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
27 - 41 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
155cm (5' 1.0") - 169cm (5' 6.5") | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Coloured; Indian; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other; Hindu | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Food Services; Medical / Dental; Government; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Other | ||
Income: |
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Shy; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Electronic Dance Music; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Business; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Music Channels; News; Reality shows; Sport; Talk shows; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Documentary; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Business news; Healthy living; Investing; Reading; Shopping; Singing; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Running; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; Indian; South African |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Intelligence; Long hair |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
House in the suburbs |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Very |