In Her Own Words
About Her
I’m active, intentional, and enjoy taking care of myself - gym and running keep me balanced. If you enjoy an active lifestyle, that’s already a good start.
I appreciate depth as much as fun. Good books, meaningful conversations, and quiet time by a fireplace matter to me - as much as laughter, playful banter, and not taking life too seriously. I enjoy my own company and choose carefully who I share it with.
I love travel, weekend getaways, concerts, movies, and great food - from dinners out to a proper braai with a good steak and real fire (yes, it matters). I’m just as happy cuddling at home when the moment is right.
Uncomplicated, curious, adventurous, and emotionally aware. I’ve built a life I enjoy - and I’m open to sharing it with someone who adds to it.
About Her Ideal Match
You’re grounded, self-sufficient, and comfortable in your own skin. You communicate well, enjoy both closeness and independence, and have your own life in motion.
You value chemistry, laughter, romance, and shared experiences - without drama or emotional dependency. You’re looking for connection, not someone to manage or rescue.
If you enjoy companionship that feels easy, exciting, and mutually chosen, we’ll get along just fine. Where it leads can unfold naturally - no pressure, no pushing.
I’m drawn to men who know who they are and where they’re going - curiosity and kindness are very attractive.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria (Garsfontein), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
157cm (5' 1.8") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Auburn | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
50 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Taurus; Cancer; Virgo; Scorpio; Capricorn; Pisces | ||
Height: |
160cm (5' 3.0") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Black; Greying | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | ||
Other Languages: |
Dutch; English | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Bachelors degree | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Finance; Sales and Marketing; Technical / Science / Engineering | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Optimistic; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Music Channels; Reality shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer programming; Gardening; Healthy living; Reading; Sewing; Shopping |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Camping; Cycling; Martial arts; Running; Skiing; Water skiing; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Exercising |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |