In His Own Words
About Him
Die wenigsten sind sich bewußt, dass eine langandauernde und glückliche Beziehung nur dann möglich ist, wenn man bereit ist, mit seinem Partner Konflikte (die unweigerlich auftreten, wenn zwei Menschen eine enge Beziehung eingehen) auszutragen, auch wenn das manchmal "harte Arbeit" ist und in keiner Form dem Ideal der alles überwindenden Liebe entspricht.
About His Ideal Match
Ich habe da mal was gelesen, in dem für mich viel Wahrheit steckt:
Wir alle suchen nach diesem besonderen Menschen, der für uns
bestimmt ist. Aber wenn du erst mal genügend Beziehungen
hinter dir hast, dämmert es dir langsam, dass es die
richtige nicht gibt, nur verschiedene Geschmacksrichtungen
von falsch.
Warum das so ist? Weil du selbst auf die eine oder andere
Art fehlerhaft bist und nach jemanden suchst, der auf eine
Weise fehlerhaft ist, die dich ergänzt.
Aber du musst schon eine Menge mitgemacht haben, bis sich
dein Falsch-Sein vollständig entfalten kann. Erst wenn du
auf deine innersten Dämonen gestossen bist, auf deine
unlösbaren Probleme ? die, welche dich erst zu dem machen,
der du wirklich bist -, dann bist du bereit einen Partner
für den Rest deines Lebens zu finden. Dann erst weißt du
endlich, wonach du suchst.
Du suchst nämlich nach dem falschen Menschen. Aber nicht
einfach nach irgendeinem falschen, sondern nach dem
richtigen falschen, nach jemanden, den du verliebt anblickst
und dabei denkst: "Genau dieses Problem möchte ich haben."
Ich werde diesen besonderen Menschen finden, der auf die
genau richtige Art der falsche für mich ist.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
Germany | |
Location: |
Herford, Nordrhein-Westfalen, Germany | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
65 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
182cm (5' 11.7") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
German | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Short-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High school (mid level) | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Fat cat |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Germany | ||
Location: |
Niedersachsen; Nordrhein-Westfalen, Germany | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
32 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
167cm (5' 5.7") - 180cm (5' 10.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
German | ||
Other Languages: |
Danish; English; Italian; Norwegian; Spanish | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral; High school (mid level) | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Executive / Management; Finance; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Other; Agriculture | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
None |
Body Hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party Behaviour: |
A cruiser |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Pessimistic; Realistic; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Religious; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Backgammon; Basketball; Birdwatching; Canoeing; Chess; Cycling; Dancesport; Gymnastics; Handball; Hang- / Paragliding; Hiking; Horse Riding; Mountain biking; Orienteering; Running; Snorkeling; Soccer; Swimming; Table Tennis; Volleyball; Walking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; German; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Exercising |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
My friends are my main family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm seeing several people |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Horse(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Lulu's Love Shack Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |