In His Own Words
About Him
I’m a professional in my mid forties, and lead a very full life. I’m a man of many roles, but I’m currently looking for a specific one: a partner-in-crime for those moments when life needs a little more "main character" energy. I’m well-spoken, respectful, and I believe that chemistry is best enjoyed when it’s focused entirely on the two people in the room.
I’m looking for a woman who is satisfied with her life but misses the electricity of a new connection. I'm seeking a discreet, recurring arrangement built on mutual attraction and shared secrets. Someone who enjoys clever banter, a bit of intellectual sparring, and a lot of shared laughter.
Since I value my privacy (and yours), you won't find me looking for a "public" relationship. I’m not looking for a life partner or a dinner date—I’m looking for a private escape where we can be ourselves without the world watching.
I’m looking for that "stolen moments" kind of fun. I want the focus to be on our time together—uncomplicated, high-intensity, and purely for our own enjoyment.
Complete discretion is a given. I’m a "leave it better than you found it" kind of person; I want our time together to be a highlight of your week, with zero strings attached.
If you’re looking for a gentleman who knows how to keep a secret and keep things exciting, let’s see if the spark is there.
About His Ideal Match
I’m looking for a woman with a wicked sense of humor and a bit of a rebellious streak.
You’re the kind of person who can carry an intelligent conversation but also knows how to communicate with just a look.
You enjoy the thrill of a secret, the heat of a private encounter, and the ability to walk back into your 'real world' with a hidden smile.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Sandton, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
47 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
183cm (6' 0.0") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Indian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Ask me later | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Kempton Park; Bedfordview; Edenvale; Modderfontein; Randburg; Roodepoort; Sandton; Johannesburg (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
145cm (4' 9.1") - 189cm (6' 2.4") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Friendliness; Humour; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Jazz; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Non-fiction |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Interests: |
Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Cricket |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Fast food; Indian; Japanese; Seafood; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Power |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Honesty: |
Extremely |